Thursday, June 21, 2018

Goodbye to My Virginia Village

I started this blog many years ago but have been on a hiatus.  Recent life events dictate it's time to bring it back!

The first post I want to write about is a goodbye to my very special Virginia Village.

As a woman, wife, and mother I was extremely lucky to find my Virginia village.  A village in which I felt supported in my work, found growth as a woman and friend, and in which my children were able to thrive and flourish.  But last week, I had to say goodbye to that village - it was a decision that my husband and I debated about for months and making the decision to leave felt like the right thing to do.  It also allowed me to make room for a new person in my village and to seek out a new one; a new place where I could grow - surrounded by new villagers who will challenge me and provide new opportunities for my entire family.  As we wait for that village to begin to develop (we haven't been here a week yet), I need to take the time and thank my Virginia village.

Thank you to the village neighbors of Hunterbrook Drive.  From long talks at the bus stop long after the kids got on the bus, going for morning walks, lunching at some of the local favorite spots, family parties, great food and friendship.

Thank you to the village of Rockledge Elementary School.  Not only did this part of my village take care of my children and their educational and mental well-being, RKES allowed me as a professional to share resources, deliver trainings, and stay in touch with some key educational decisions.

Thank you to the village of PTA.  I never thought I wanted to be a part of PTA let alone the President for two years.  It was a calling of sorts, the PTA needed a leader and I had no excuse to not step up.  I was able to practice my leadership skills and developed a strong advocacy voice.  The PTA girls night outs were the best!

Thank you to the village of SCAN.  When I was ready to go back to work, SCAN was there.  This was the place where all of my words collided and grew.  It was a true testament to my liberal arts education.  Not only did I get to work with a phenomenal team, I was able to meet hundreds of professionals who challenged me to grow in ways I never knew.  Longtime friendships were definitely created here.

Thank you to the village of Prince William County.  I was just beginning to seriously consider a run at the school board in PWC before our California opportunity came up.  It is a community with many strengths and challenges, but it was home.

So, goodbye Virginia village.  8 years was a lot.  You were where my kids grew up.  You were there for me and my family.

Thank you.